Spain's romantic register is Alhambra, pintxos bar, and flamenco in three different and equally serious versions. The Alhambra in Granada — the Nasrid Palace courtyard at night, when the reflecting pool is lit and the carved plasterwork glows — is the most specifically beautiful architectural honeymoon backdrop in Western Europe. The San Sebastián pintxos bar circuit, moving from bar to bar in the old quarter with a glass of txakoli and a new small plate at each stop, is the specific Basque romantic evening that food-interested couples do on repeat. A flamenco tablao in Seville — the small venue version, not the tourist show, where the performers are mid-career and the room is dense with emotion — is an evening of unusual intensity. A sailing trip between the Balearics, anchoring in rocky coves with no beach access, provides the Mediterranean version. No rush.